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Thursday, November 8, 2012
Coincidences are horrifying
When I stopped at the red light at Bulldog and 500 E, I pulled out my phone to quickly set an alarm. I always get guilty shivers up my spine while looking at my phone and driving. I've had it drilled into me, by my dad especially, that texting and driving is just one of the "plain stupidest" things a human being can do. So even though I wasn't texting, I still got extremely uncomfortable, twitching and writhing as I tried to get the alarm set before the light turned green.
My guilty shifting eyes noticed a car pulling up next to me. Out of my peripheral I guessed the driver was a successful businessman--he drove a silver Chevy Malibu, was wearing a blue, collared shirt, and brought a general aura of auspiciousness to the road around me.
I pleaded with the universe to not let him be anything like my dad as I slowly turned my head to look him full on, for anyone like my dad would most definitely be disgusted with me and my apparent texting, and would surely assimilate me into his disdainful perception of my generation.
I was horrified.
The man next to me was my dad.
Monday, May 21, 2012
Just a tidbit from growing up I just remembered...
(because my heart rate got faster you see).
Monday, February 27, 2012
I love the relatively new freckle on the tender side of my left pointer finger. I love that if you look closely enough you can see the wrinkles that separate it into four smaller freckles. I like to think of it as the mark of a challenge that I faced—the kiss of some difficult experience. I don’t remember exactly when it showed up, so I can’t pin it to any experience in particular. Instead my freckle represents the culmination of my experience—essentially it is me. When I first noticed it, I thought it was a sliver so I dug it out with fingernail clippers. But when the skin grew back, it was still brown, a little bigger than before. Its freckly-roots go down too far to erase, like the core of my character. When I fear change, I look at my freckle and remember the strength of my inner nature and the impossibility of losing it. When I am cut down, my freckle represents the promise that I will grow back, a little stronger than before. When I feel inadequate, I cup both my hands in front of my face and think how much I prefer that unique little sun-scar to no scar at all and then I don’t feel inadequate anymore because I understand that inadequacy is just the place where a little brown spot will be after the Son works on it for a while.
Friday, February 10, 2012
I need...[in addition to oxygen]
I need somebody to love.
I don’t necessarily mean a boyfriend. Boyfriends aren’t the only people who can give and receive love. I need a little sister to nurture. I need a Mom to roll my eyes at. I need a brother to look up to or a chicken’s coop to clean. I need to laugh at my Dad’s Harvard humor.
Right now all I have is my plants. And my roommates will tell you that I have enough of them.
I whisper praise to their little green tendrils.
I flood their air with Chopin and Tchaikovsky.
I sing.
I tuck them in, and I monitor their water levels.
I am with them when they wake every morning.
Most of my plants are doing great; although, some of them have rejected my love and simply refuse to grow. My Petunias are growing out instead of up, my Snapdragon is growing sideways, and what should be my Gazanias look instead like ocean barnacles. I love dumping excessive care on my plants, but the most they can give back is a little oxygen. Oxygen is essential to life of course, but my spirit is suffering from a lack of intimacy.
We are relational beings. Our identities are defined by our relationship with God as His children. We live off of love. So being away from home, where nine people know me well, love me anyway, and share a close connection with me, is obviously difficult. College dorms seem to be somewhat of a paradox: there are six of us crammed into such close corners, yet none of us feel very close. It’s the anomaly of feeling alone in a crowded room; we’re all isolated together.
So please, this Valentine’s Day, instead of bringing me a dozen roses to place beside my dormant garden, bring me somebody to love. Come over to my apartment and spend time with me. Build a bridge between our hearts as I soak in the person that you are by listening to you talk about nothing in particular. Maybe we’ll sprout little tendrils of our own.